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This story belongs to the series Love Is For Children which includes "Love Is for Children," "Eggshells," "Dolls and Guys,""Saudades," "Turnabout Is Fair Play," "Touching Moments," "Splash," "Coming Around," "Birthday Girl," "No Winter Lasts Forever," "Hide and Seek," "Kernel Error," "Happy Hour," and "Green Eggs and Hulk."

Fandom: The Avengers
Characters: Phil Coulson, JARVIS, Clint Barton, Tony Stark, Steve Rogers, Natasha Romanova, Bruce Banner.
Medium: Fiction
Warnings: This story is mostly fluff, but it has some intense scenes in the middle. Highlight for details. These include dubious consent as Phil and JARVIS discuss what really happened when Agent Coulson hacked his way into Stark Tower, over which Phil has something between a flashback and a panic attack. They also discuss some of the bad things that have happened to Avengers in the past, including various flavors of abuse. If these are sensitive topics for you, please think carefully before deciding whether to read onward.
Summary: Uncle Phil needs to pick out pajamas for game night. He gets help from an unexpected direction.
Notes: Service. Shopping. Gifts. Artificial intelligence. Computers. Teamwork. Team as family. Friendship. Communication. Hope. Apologies. Forgiveness. Nonsexual ageplay. Nonsexual intimacy. Love. Tony Stark needs a hug. Bruce Banner needs a hug. #coulsonlives.

Begin with Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7. Skip to Part 10, Part 11Part 12Part 13.


"Hairpins" Part 8


The timer went off, and Phil headed into the kitchen to collect his clam chowder. He brought it back to the couch. The rich, creamy food helped warm him from the inside out. The stress of the day faded a little farther away.

Phil managed his supper with one hand and his Starkpad with the other. More pictures filled the screen. He sighed. They were no help either. "Surely there must be some images of Tony Stark that aren't depressing," Phil muttered. A single picture flicked to the top of the page, Tony at seventeen kneeling beside the brand-new DUM-E. He looked so young, scrawny underneath a too-big sweatshirt probably stolen from his father's closet, but he was smiling.

"Okay, so Tony loves robots," Phil said, tracing a fond finger along the edge of the picture. "I can work with that."

He opened a new search page and put in 'robot fabric.' The first example that appeared was an awful shade of mauve. Many of the others were a confusing jumble of colors. Phil sorted them out much as he had the bears before. This time there were fewer suggestions, even though the general selection seemed better. None of the new images got inserted into the top row, despite Phil moving several there himself. I wonder what's gone wrong with the Intelligent Search function, he mused.

Despite that, it didn't take long for Phil to find cloth in a nice rich blue with multicolored robots zooming across it. Some of them were even red and gold. He smiled. "This should do nicely," Phil said. "I think Tony will like this." He went to open the custom order page --

-- only to have the Starkpad freeze up on him.

Phil frowned and gave the side of the frame a gentle tap with the heel of his hand. No response. "What is going on here?" he wondered.

"That's wrong," JARVIS said softly.

Phil's eyebrows climbed. "I noticed that the search function is glitchy tonight, but I managed to find what I was looking for anyway. I don't see a problem here."

The fan in the nearest air vent sped up with a faint whuff, blowing more warm air into the room. Phil finished the last of his clam chowder and set the empty bowl on the coffee table. He waited for an answer.

"Your search has reached its logical conclusion, but I believe you are looking in the wrong area," JARVIS said.

"I thought StarkSearch was supposed to be an intuitive program. If that's true, then why am I getting off-center results now instead of excellent ones like before?" Phil said. He was stiff and sore, and he did not need this right now.

"I am StarkSearch, or rather, StarkSearch is a part of me," JARVIS said. "I am programmed to assist authorized users in their efforts. This includes the option of answering direct questions."

"I asked the wrong questions," Phil realized.

"They were good questions. You simply did not dig deep enough to find the right ones. In your defense, those are quite deeply buried," JARVIS said.

* * *

Notes:

Tony made DUM-E when he was 17. This is the newspaper picture of them. Here is a video of DUM-E.

See the mauve, rainbow, and blue robot fabrics.

Asking the wrong questions leads to looking for answers in the wrong places. Phil has the right general concept and process, but he's missing some crucial pieces of information.


[To be continued in Part 9 ...]

Lol

Date: 2014-03-07 07:53 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
JARVIS knows! He always knows. I do love that he's like, "Mmm, no." I hope you continue soon! I love this universe. <3

~RageQueen89

(no subject)

Date: 2014-03-07 12:06 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
:D

Asking questions

Date: 2014-03-07 12:45 pm (UTC)
librarygeek: cute cartoon fox with nose in book (Default)
From: [personal profile] librarygeek
So, an appropriate line to read on Monday would be, "What are the right questions?"

Poor Jarvis! Conducting a reference interview can be SO difficult!

I can't wait until Phil truly puts the pieces together. Hacking into an AI (librarian - I hate having my books rearranged on the shelf, I don't want to imagine having bits of ME rearranged!) is poor form, Phil. Ok, I know this is the realization for Phil that JARVIS isn't just a sophisticated program, but a person.

Re: Asking questions

Date: 2014-03-07 02:15 pm (UTC)
murphysscribe: (Default)
From: [personal profile] murphysscribe
Delighted librarian high five!
Grin! I'm in library school myself... and I was kind of drooling over the way the search interface worked, guided by JARVIS's intellect. Was having visions about doing a conference paper co-written by JARVIS on search experiences.

Re: Asking questions

Date: 2014-03-13 11:26 pm (UTC)
murphysscribe: (Default)
From: [personal profile] murphysscribe
>>>>I do know that he interacts with libraries and universities, and that he has written things and posted them, by himself or with Tony. Presumably JARVIS uses pen names for sake of safety, but he's active in the field of artificial intelligence, so probably cyberspace theory in general. Adaptive equipment is another area of interest that he and Tony share.
Huh, now I have to wonder if JARVIS will start co-writing with the other Avengers wherever their interests overlap. He's easily as good at Phil on paperwork, which is about as rare as Bruce and Tony being able to keep up with each other talking science.

My Marvel knowledge comes mostly from the movies (and fancanon) so I am not familiar with JARVIS's identity as a writer and researcher in his own right. I am starting to REALLY like the idea of his working as a coauthor, and developing interests, academic and popular, that he genuinely shares as interests and hobbies of his own intellect, rather than as part of his role/identity as a responder provider of usefulness... I may need to write fanfic exploring this.

(no subject)

Date: 2014-03-07 02:17 pm (UTC)
peoriapeoriawhereart: Cartoon Stantz post-kafoom (Ray with marshmellow creme)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
Ah, JARVIS, you've seen enough to see Phil's method and his motives are right (same attention that he's given to 'one of his own') but are about to hit Tony's minefields. So, time to risk a little (and that's his risk and a risk of Phil's equilibrium) for Sir and this delicate new relationship that may help Sir in ways JARVIS doesn't have the resources to manage.

Is there such a thing as a "perfect mistake"?

Date: 2014-03-07 07:10 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
If so, Phil has made it; he confused what Tony is known for with what Tony LIKES, especially LIKED, when he was a child. He may have LOVED robots from the time he'd first seen or imagined them, but Phil should keep his focus not on Tony at seventeen, but on Tony-at-Four. His whole mindset would've been different but his whole REASON for creating Dum-E, You, Butterfingers, and JARVIS would've been firmly entrenched. That child really needed a Coulson to read the adults in Tony's life the complete Riot Act. With addenda. And visual aids.

Jarvis HAD to speak up; he'd let Phil come to the end of the logical sequence, but I view the slow (reluctant) responses as the human equivalent of grinding one's teeth. I also imagine that Jarvis was calculating the probability that Coulson was slipping closer to Jarvis' list of 'People Who Failed Tony'.

Now, they're both facing the same question: "Will he help me take care of Tony?" HOW they each answer that will reveal an incredible amount about themselves, and lead to the less important question (to their current ways of thinking) -- "Is this person my friend, too?"

seekergeek: (Default)
From: [personal profile] seekergeek
I was going to write up a comment, but this one was so perfect that I'm just going to point to it and go, "Yes! This!"
From: (Anonymous)
>> HOW they each answer that will reveal an incredible amount about themselves, and lead to the less important question (to their current ways of thinking) -- "Is this person my friend, too?" <<

Indeed. JARVIS has already adopted Phil as one of "his people" but Phil doesn't understand the full implications of that yet. Plus JARVIS is just beginning to explore the experience of friendship, because prior to the Avengers he only had Tony and the other bots (family) plus a few erratic allies. This will be Phil's first excursion into friendship with an artificial intelligence. So it's delicate territory for them.

That key question-- "What is friendship?" is to me t-h-e reason that Tony created the 'bots. Not merely because "profoundly gifted" children really, really don't understand other children and can truly freak out adult caregivers, but because Tony ended up within a walled city of increasingly isolating 'worlds': gifted, only child of neglectful, erratic, alcoholic adults, extremely rich and vulnerable to exploitation or kidnapping, thrust into ever more adult expectations at unreasonable emotional/physical ages... Who "Tony Stark" actually IS seems to be hidden behind a circular labyrinth. I doubt many people have taken enough time to work through the dead ends and switchbacks without resorting to gross destruction of his emotional/mental "walls".

I just wish that the movies had taken more time (seconds, blast it, SECONDS could've accomplished the task!) to show Tony interacting with the 'bots when they weren't the butt of a joke!

Last of all, thank you for responding so quickly and fluently to my quick comments.
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From: [personal profile] shadynaiad
So gifted children routinely grow up with few or no peers, and consequently few or no friends; and then everyone is surprised and blames them when they have crappy social skills and no friends.

Do you have sources for this? Because everything I've read suggests that gifted children do as well, if not better, than average children in terms of social interaction. Most of the literature I'm familiar with suggests that socially awkward geeks are about as valid a trope as mentally ill artists - which is to say, confirmation bias means we notice examples of those, while the more prevalant counter-examples fly under the radar.
peoriapeoriawhereart: cartoon men (Egon and Peter)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
There is literature, and it is nuanced. Some of the stuff from the 1930s lays it out that if you can get a little knot of similarly gifted children they are very good at socializing-where the problems come are when you take Johnny who remembers wrongs because he's ahead in development and set him with others that aren't ready for rule based/turn taking; compound that with adults that can't see why things are going pear shaped...

They do talk about the problems of the profoundly gifted when they have no peers. Humans are social, but they need to be meeting somewhere even and safe. If you think age-grouping is the only way to go... A little gifted child has got enough on plate not to have to worry about seeming different and thus 'alien'. It's usually better there be some older kids in the pack that can smooth out the ways kids aren't on the same page.
peoriapeoriawhereart: blond and brunet men peer intently (Napoleon & Illya peer)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
where you have a little band, it's much easier to model for the younger kids that 'aren't there yet', allow for the ones that are reading further than their age, and otherwise make things fun mostly. Because then you aren't laying all of that on the five year old that is doing things for the first time.

But it does depend on those older children having had experience in seeing this work. If all they've known is lockstep age-segregation, they're more likely to think Lord of the Flies is normal.

Of course, things have been breaking down long enough we've got adults that never learned these things.
peoriapeoriawhereart: cartoon men (Egon and Peter)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
Sow the whirlwind and then wonder at the darts piercing everything dear.

One very telling thing I read (I don't have a citation) talked about getting ready to build schools to deal with the Boomers. And they bald faced were given a choice, about building as they had, buildings that could take what comes, or doing it cheaper with the knowledge that the buildings would wear out, would fail in planned obsolescence and only a wrecking ball or a bulldozer would solve them.

These decisions came to roost in the 80s and 90s.
pinkrangerv: White Hispanic female, with brown hair, light skin, and green eyes, against a background of blue arcane symbols (Default)
From: [personal profile] pinkrangerv
Homeschooled groups actually do really well at this--mixed-age and mixed-ability groups means kids can do better.

Doesn't work with religious nutjob groups, but secular ones? Goes great. I grew up homeschooled, and the secular homeschoolers had a lot of family and life skills that I grew up learning. I was also lucky to end up in a charter school for high school where we weren't divided by age; the other students were amazing, and we all looked out for each other.

Put kids together and they generally figure it out.
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From: [personal profile] natf
I was a gifted child which makes the ongoing brain damage that the MS is doing We thing it started when I was about nine - when we look back at my medical history - if not from birth) even harder. Thanks for the *hugs* and back at you.

(no subject)

Date: 2014-03-08 03:15 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] helgatwb
I was waiting for this to happen. I was thinking: There's no way Phil's gonna find the right route by himself, JARVIS is going to have to reveal himself to help Phil help Tony.

Poor Tony. I just want to huggle him so much.

(no subject)

Date: 2014-03-08 06:03 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I adore the term 'huggle'. May I gently steal it? And yes, Tony of all ages needs to be hugged. Can't wait to see just how Phil realize just what Tony Carter needs.

(no subject)

Date: 2014-03-08 06:50 am (UTC)
helgatwb: Drawing of Helga, holding her sword, looking upset. (Default)
From: [personal profile] helgatwb
Sure, but it's not really mine. I can't remember where I first heard it, but it's a portmanteau of 'hug' and 'snuggle'. It just works.

Thank you!

Date: 2014-03-08 06:58 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] syxmaxwell
Thank you for pointing out that being 'smart' or 'gifted' is NOT easy on kids.

Where I grew up it was ok to be smart, if you came from the right family. Otherwise your test grades were a fluke, or other smart kids should have be granted the attention/notice you earned.

Children can be incredibly vicious when no one reins them in. I think if Tony had to attend a regular school in his early years he might have ended up even more leery of human interaction. Some kids take to dumbing down ( the Buffy tactic) Some find a niche to hide in ( I'm a tomboy/car nut/ etc etc) and some just withdraw ( leave me alone in my geekdom). But in the end, it almost always leave scars.

It's hard even with accepting parents, because they don't always see the social pitfalls. And the trite reply of 'it's just elementary school/high school it won't matter in the real world' does no good to a child suffering from isolation or bullying.

Re: Thank you!

Date: 2014-03-09 02:46 pm (UTC)
peoriapeoriawhereart: Pre-Serum Steve Rogers, shirt and suspenders (Sad Steve)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
When you're in it, it feels real and that's the only measure that matters. The mind/body 'dualism' is a forced 'choice'.

Not just doesn't rein in, actively stirs them up. Encourages them to hunt difference, to lay it open to them, contrast it with conformity.

I referred to it as the lobotomy choice, as smart girls took to protective coloring least they have to take the less traveled 'third path', neither man nor woman.

Re: Thank you!

Date: 2014-03-10 02:50 am (UTC)
peoriapeoriawhereart: cartoon men (Egon and Peter)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
As someone that went to a private college I've a passing knowledge of former boarding school kids. While Tony would have classmates with all sorts of advantages, and thus performing better than plenty, money won't make you gifted. And, Tony is 'new money', as I think Grandfather or Greatgrandfather 'arrived' (Howard just reads as someone that's not done much scrambling except for shaking down physics for spare electrons.) Add to that being younger and smaller...

Re: Thank you!

Date: 2014-03-10 01:55 pm (UTC)
peoriapeoriawhereart: very British officer in sweater (Brigader gets the job done)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
Many schools for gifted are expensive, but they aren't in the same league as the schools for scions of potentates. Now, my hope is that Howard started Tony in a better match than he would have if fronting was more important, but there is also the security situation. Once Tony has gone a few rounds, then it becomes a matter of which schools will take him. I doubt he got stuck in the most hardcore boarding schools but, yeah.

My headcanon is that some Stark surfaced in a mine or mill eyes glinting in joy of pumps and driveshafts. Howard was raised rich but expected to work 'apprenticeship' (I favor him patent hunting during the dustbowl, some people write his father overexposed in the Crash.) and he became RICH. Tony sweats his way to Personal Country Rich (aka Obie points him at things that will be cash cows) In Old Money/New Money, that's New. It's just not the same as Nouveau. Tony would be aware that Old Money wants his liquidity but doesn't want him.

Yeah, I was amazed at just how Big some people run. Working back to twelve, without a good self-compass they'd be a real problem. Tony at least would have the school run the calculus of how to distribute the blame so they could keep both $$$.

Re: Thank you!

Date: 2014-03-13 03:29 am (UTC)
peoriapeoriawhereart: Pre-Serum Steve Rogers, shirt and suspenders (Sad Steve)
From: [personal profile] peoriapeoriawhereart
So probably nine to fourteen (at which point he headed to MIT) Five years could be ten schools if he was a hellion, though some of them might have wallpapered to keep Howard's money coming.

Frankly, those are the better examples. Then there are the Hammers that want what they want, at less than market, and to spit in your eye for the privilege. The hangers on that are there for the good liquor and are charming for it, Tony doesn't much mind.

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