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[personal profile] methylethyl has written a brilliant and detailed analysis of the trades (e.g. plumbing, construction) vs. a 4-year liberal arts degree, with attention to various things that are wrong with the American economy and lifestyle. Let's take a look ...

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Five Things I Wish More Books Talked About

1. The Messy Side of Friendships
2. Adult Characters Starting Over
3. Grief That Sticks Around
4. Queer Joy Without Tragedy
5. Found Family and Chosen Community



All of these are things I have written about. Some of them are things I write about all the time. The vast majority of my work touches on found-family and community somehow. Where characters have lost someone, it tends to stick, like with Cas.

Safety

Apr. 18th, 2025 08:46 pm
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WHAT MAKES A HOME FEEL SAFE FOR AUTISTIC PEOPLE?

Autistic children and adults often lack access to spaces that make them feel safe, or allow them to decompress and be themselves without interference or unwelcome scrutiny. Sometimes a lack of safe spaces is no one’s fault, as when living quarters have limited size or privacy. But too often, autistic safety, comfort, and ease are not considered due to a lack of autism understanding, or rejected outright due to insistence on complying with non-autistic lifestyle approaches.

While ideally all non-autistic people and professionals would understand what makes spaces feel safe for autistic people, the baseline should be that autistic people have at least one space to retreat to: their homes. We talked to autistic people from a variety of backgrounds—including autistic parents of autistic and neurodivergent kids—about strategies for making homes feel safe for the autistic people who live in them.


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For a while now, I've been making posts that list active communities on Dreamwidth. The weekly posts cover different topics, mostly active communities plus a few dormant that could be revived. The seasonal gather posts list all the active communities from the past three months, without the dormant ones, but adding a list of newly created communities from the same timespan. These also include the parameters for the listings.

This seems like a good time to make a masterlist of these resources. Please share widely to help people find communities they'll enjoy on Dreamwidth.

Introduction -- February 4, 2022

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Growing and sharing seeds can boost mental health

Storing and sharing seeds has clear environmental benefits. But new findings suggest they can bring about wellbeing wins too.
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Author Kathy Slack, whose new memoir Rough Patch explores how growing vegetables helped her recover from burnout and depression, was unsurprised by the connection. “Sowing a seed is an act of hope,” she says.“Not to be overly dramatic about it, but when you’re wondering whether it’s worth even bothering to stick around any more, planting a seed is like a promise to your future self.”



Projects like a community garden where people can just come in and grow things, a seed library, a seed / plant swap, etc. can have great benefits for individual and community wellbeing.
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Here are a couple of community activity updates from [personal profile] soc_puppet:

[community profile] moodthemeinayear is nearing its next break period! It begins on Wednesday. Following that break, the Minimum and Medium Tracks will reset, so it's a great time to jump on for anyone who wants a schedule to follow.

[community profile] summerofthe69's amnesty period will end on Monday, with theme suggestions for 2025 set to open on Wednesday. Voting for themes will begin in May, so you have plenty of time to ponder theme suggestions.
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Substance abuse often follows homelessness, not precedes it — new study finds

According to a recent poll from the National Alliance to End Homelessness, 57% of Americans believe that alcoholism and drug addiction directly lead to people losing their housing.

It is true that substance misuse -- and problematic use of substances as prescribed -- can lead to homelessness, because it impairs ability to hold a job and perform other social behaviors that America demands of people. Anyone who can't keep up is abandoned.


In fact, 42% of unhoused Californians reported that they began to use regularly only after they experienced homelessness for the first time.

It's hardly a surprise that people in a miserable condition will seek to relieve their suffering by any means available.

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Happiness

Mar. 27th, 2025 01:20 pm
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Is your job making you happy? Insights from job satisfaction data

New method to evaluate workplace conditions.
New research has found that employers and policymakers might want to start paying attention to how workers are feeling, because employee happiness contains critical economic information
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Today we went out running errands.


We stopped at Ace Hardware for an air filter and I found a few new things to plant: a bag of 25 Dutch irises, a bag of 2 horseradish roots, a packet of Johnny jump-up seeds, and a packet of passionflower seeds. I hadn't seen passionflower seed before, only plants, so I bought them on a lark.

We picked up lunch at Arby's, then went grocery shopping.

I had great luck at the Charleston Food Forest. I took plenty of pictures. The first fruit trees are blooming! :D I gathered some moss for terrariums, the hardneck garlic that I was aiming for, and while I was down there digging garlic out of the pathway, I saw that strawberries had spread into it also, so I took some of them too. I may go back for more strawberries another day. Most modern ones are kind of fussy, delicate things but these are growing all over the place, so I think they're tough enough to experiment with. I nibbled on the French sorrel too.

We tried to check out the new thrift store, but it's closed on Mondays. :( Half Moon is only open 9-12 on Mondays.

We finished reading The Geeky Chef Cookbook.  Some of the recipes sounded wretched, but others seem quite promising.  

Still, I got a good haul at the food forest, so it's been a productive day.
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These are the content notes for "The Philosophy of the Sandwich."

Warning: These notes include recipes for delicious sandwiches that you might not be able to find or make (or supposed to eat).

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This poem is spillover from the September 3, 2025 Poetry Fishbowl. It was inspired by prompts from [personal profile] readera, [personal profile] jake67jake, and [personal profile] wyld_dandelyon. It also fill the "Neurodiversity" square in my 9-1-24 card for the People with Disabilities Drabble Fest Bingo. This poem has been sponsored by a pool with [personal profile] fuzzyred, [personal profile] siliconshaman, and [personal profile] wyld_dandelyon. It belongs to the Shiv thread of the Polychrome Heroics series.

Warning: This poem includes descriptions of delicious sandwiches that you might not be able to find or make (or supposed to eat).

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This poem is spillover from the September 3, 2024 Poetry Fishbowl. It was inspired by a prompt from [personal profile] see_also_friend. It also fills the "Addiction" square in my 9-1-24 card for the People with Disabilities Drabble Fest Bingo. This poem has been sponsored by [personal profile] janetmiles. It belongs to the Rutledge thread of the Polychrome Heroics series. It follows "Not Until We Are Lost" and "Come to a New Point of View" so read those first, or this won't make much sense.

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Based on an audience poll, this is the freebie for the March 4, 2025 Poetry Fishbowl reaching its $200 goal. It came out of the February 4, 2025 Poetry Fishbowl. It was inspired by a prompt from [personal profile] alchemicink and also fills the "Our Special Place" square in my 2-1-25 card for the Valentines Bingofest. This poem belongs to the series Daughters of the Apocalypse.

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I finally finished organzing all the stuff I picked up yesterday, but by then it was too late to post, so this is a followup to the Today's Adventures.

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We went out today and got !!WOWL00T!! The main focus was visiting Dad, but I wanted to catch an event too. It's going to take me hours to sort through all the swag, so this is a partial post, then I'll come back and edit it or maybe put the vendors in a separate post.

EDIT 3/8/25 -- I finished posting about the vendors and swag here.

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See my Follow Friday Master Post for more topics.These are active communities in Dreamwidth from Winter 2024-2025 . They include things I've posted, but only the active ones; the thematic posts also list dormant communities of interest. This list includes some communities that I've found and saved but haven't made it into thematic posts yet. This post covers J-Z.

See my Follow Friday Master Post for more topics.

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The Hopeless Autist's Guide to Approaching People in Public

The point is that I enjoy talking to strangers, and over 18 months of door-knocking and 20+ years since I've learned how to do it in a way that keeps the experience positive and enjoyable for everybody involved. Being autistic, though, this is a conscious skill, something I have to think through every step. Nothing about this is instinctive, nothing about it comes naturally.

So for my fellow autists and awkward weirdos, I thought I'd make you a guide. And for anybody neurotypical and naturally social reading this, perhaps it can be a glimpse into why autistic people struggle with these things as I spell out exactly what at least some of us have to go through when socializing with our fellow human beings.


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