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"Our soul is governed by four invisible forces: love, death, power and time."
-- Paulo Coelho
"Power doesn't corrupt people; people corrupt power."
-- William Gaddis
"Many injuries and deaths can be prevented through an understanding of the dangers of power lines, electrical appliances, extension cords, and lightning."
-- Richard Neal
"The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living."
-- Marcus Tullius Cicero
(These links are heartbreaking.)
Losing a child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent, and often leaves them unable to function. This is also hard on surviving siblings, who need extra support, although some ages may seem unaffected. Know how to help survivors. Here is a handbook for grieving parents and one on children's grief.
(These links are intense.)
Traumatic grief comes from a shattering loss, and it heals slowly or not at all or gets worse, instead of recovering at a normal (which is still not fast) rate. Traumatic loss and multiple bereavement both increase the risk of complicated grief, PTSD, or other complications. Here's a big archive of articles about all kinds of grief. Grieving people -- whether their grief is normal or traumatic -- need a safe and supportive environment. Few things are as precious as a friend who'll let you bawl on their shoulder until you run out of tears. There are tips on coping with grief and supporting a bereaved friend.
(So are these.)
I have a post about dealing with grief and a grief questionnaire. Emotional first aid may help too. You can also help an upset friend online.
Self-blame is a form of internalized emotional abuse, common among trauma survivors. Casey blames himself for being at the outlet when Clay died, believing that Casey's development of superpowers caused Clay's death. Follow the steps to let go of self-blame or help someone else stop self-blaming.
(These links are very intense.)
Survivor guilt is a devasting emotion that can follow a traumatic experience where someone lived but others died. Survivors may feel plagued by questions and struggle to find meaning after the events. The moral logic of survivor guilt, or moral injury, cause particular anguish to survivors who hurt someone else or feel that they did. Casy feels like a bad person for having Electrical Powers. It is important to understand what does and doesn't help in coping with survivor guilt or supporting someone who has survivor guilt.
Sad Cat is a children's book series about loss and grief. The stories model healthy mourning skills and grief support. This has subsequently expanded into a line of products for mourners such as stuffed cats, fuzzy blankets, and coffee cups. As a result, Sad Cat merchandise has become a subtle way to signal bereavement or low mood, and people often give survivors a gift basket full of soothing self-care items.
Sad Cat: Goodbye to Grandmother is the original story, about a young cat coping with a death in the family. The cover shows a crying cat.
Feed the Grief is a T-American organization that makes and delivers meals to people in mourning. They offer a modest variety of styles. Comfort Food is soft and rich. Elevating Eats has foods that promote healthy moods and mindset. Family Plan accommodates households whose primary cook is grieving. Healthy Plate is higher in nutrients, lower in calories and undesirable ingredients. Kiddie Club presents items popular with children. Light & Easy is refreshing and gentle on the digestive system. Vegetarian avoids meat. Feed the Grief has a wider range of selections within those options. Variable portion sizes accommodate shifting appetites. People can buy meal plans or gift cards for themselves or others. Funeral homes often have a display of mourning gifts, including food services, for guests to send the survivors as a practical means of support.
Grief planning helps to create a guide for events. Know how to help people coping with grief. Here are more resources about grief.
"Our soul is governed by four invisible forces: love, death, power and time."
-- Paulo Coelho
"Power doesn't corrupt people; people corrupt power."
-- William Gaddis
"Many injuries and deaths can be prevented through an understanding of the dangers of power lines, electrical appliances, extension cords, and lightning."
-- Richard Neal
"The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living."
-- Marcus Tullius Cicero
(These links are heartbreaking.)
Losing a child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent, and often leaves them unable to function. This is also hard on surviving siblings, who need extra support, although some ages may seem unaffected. Know how to help survivors. Here is a handbook for grieving parents and one on children's grief.
(These links are intense.)
Traumatic grief comes from a shattering loss, and it heals slowly or not at all or gets worse, instead of recovering at a normal (which is still not fast) rate. Traumatic loss and multiple bereavement both increase the risk of complicated grief, PTSD, or other complications. Here's a big archive of articles about all kinds of grief. Grieving people -- whether their grief is normal or traumatic -- need a safe and supportive environment. Few things are as precious as a friend who'll let you bawl on their shoulder until you run out of tears. There are tips on coping with grief and supporting a bereaved friend.
(So are these.)
I have a post about dealing with grief and a grief questionnaire. Emotional first aid may help too. You can also help an upset friend online.
Self-blame is a form of internalized emotional abuse, common among trauma survivors. Casey blames himself for being at the outlet when Clay died, believing that Casey's development of superpowers caused Clay's death. Follow the steps to let go of self-blame or help someone else stop self-blaming.
(These links are very intense.)
Survivor guilt is a devasting emotion that can follow a traumatic experience where someone lived but others died. Survivors may feel plagued by questions and struggle to find meaning after the events. The moral logic of survivor guilt, or moral injury, cause particular anguish to survivors who hurt someone else or feel that they did. Casy feels like a bad person for having Electrical Powers. It is important to understand what does and doesn't help in coping with survivor guilt or supporting someone who has survivor guilt.
Sad Cat is a children's book series about loss and grief. The stories model healthy mourning skills and grief support. This has subsequently expanded into a line of products for mourners such as stuffed cats, fuzzy blankets, and coffee cups. As a result, Sad Cat merchandise has become a subtle way to signal bereavement or low mood, and people often give survivors a gift basket full of soothing self-care items.
Sad Cat: Goodbye to Grandmother is the original story, about a young cat coping with a death in the family. The cover shows a crying cat.
Feed the Grief is a T-American organization that makes and delivers meals to people in mourning. They offer a modest variety of styles. Comfort Food is soft and rich. Elevating Eats has foods that promote healthy moods and mindset. Family Plan accommodates households whose primary cook is grieving. Healthy Plate is higher in nutrients, lower in calories and undesirable ingredients. Kiddie Club presents items popular with children. Light & Easy is refreshing and gentle on the digestive system. Vegetarian avoids meat. Feed the Grief has a wider range of selections within those options. Variable portion sizes accommodate shifting appetites. People can buy meal plans or gift cards for themselves or others. Funeral homes often have a display of mourning gifts, including food services, for guests to send the survivors as a practical means of support.
Grief planning helps to create a guide for events. Know how to help people coping with grief. Here are more resources about grief.
Thanks!
Date: 2022-05-28 03:04 am (UTC)Great set of links, as always.
Re: Thanks!
Date: 2022-05-29 08:38 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2022-06-01 01:20 am (UTC)Yes ...
Date: 2022-06-01 01:50 am (UTC)Re: Yes ...
Date: 2022-06-02 04:36 pm (UTC)