How to Have the Life You Want
Apr. 20th, 2020 07:46 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Some of these resources came out of a discussion, and I realized they might appeal to more people...
How to know yourself:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/changepower/201603/know-yourself-6-specific-ways-know-who-you-are
https://www.dumblittleman.com/20-questions-to-know-yourself-better/
How to figure out what life you want:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201909/how-figure-out-what-you-want-in-life
https://www.nateliason.com/blog/life-you-want
https://markmanson.net/life-purpose
How to find good friends:
https://www.lifehack.org/794675/good-friends
https://www.dumblittleman.com/signs-of-true-friendship/
https://thoughtcatalog.com/chloe-masterson/2012/10/23-signs-youve-got-a-toxic-friend/
How to have the kind of family you want:
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/family/there-are-6-different-family-types-and-each-one-has-a-unique-family-dynamic/
https://psychcentral.com/blog/what-makes-a-family-functional-vs-dysfunctional/
https://ideapod.com/toxic-family-11-signs-of-family-dysfunction-and-what-to-do-next/
https://family.lovetoknow.com/list-family-values
https://socalmentalwellness.com/family-therapy/building-positive-family-environment/
https://www.healthyfamiliesbc.ca/home/articles/building-good-family-relationships-children
How to choose the right career:
https://www.whatcareerisrightforme.com/blog/how-to-choose-a-career-that-suits-you-best/
https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/how-to-choose-a-career
Jobs to consider:
https://blog.4tests.com/50-careers-without-high-school/
https://www.moneyunder30.com/50-side-jobs-you-can-do-while-you-travel
https://www.businessinsider.com/highest-paying-jobs-in-america-2019-2
https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/jobs-always-in-high-demand
https://money.usnews.com/careers/best-jobs/rankings/the-100-best-jobs
https://www.thebalancecareers.com/10-jobs-that-are-safe-from-the-robots-4586404
https://www.onlinecoursereport.com/30-best-jobs-you-can-prepare-for-online/
https://www.ryrob.com/work-from-home-jobs/
Life balance:
https://scottjeffrey.com/wheel-of-life/
https://medium.com/@erictaussig/balancing-the-wheel-of-life-as-a-working-parent-d4b0c261b084
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/f0/8f/b7/f08fb704a007cb0022a2113dbc0582f0.jpg
You'll have to make the value decisions yourself, but it helps to have information. Getting out of a crappy situation tends to take a while, but there are lots of things you can start doing the moment you decide that you don't want things to stay the same. If you don't like it, change it. Make something happen.
How to know yourself:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/changepower/201603/know-yourself-6-specific-ways-know-who-you-are
https://www.dumblittleman.com/20-questions-to-know-yourself-better/
How to figure out what life you want:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201909/how-figure-out-what-you-want-in-life
https://www.nateliason.com/blog/life-you-want
https://markmanson.net/life-purpose
How to find good friends:
https://www.lifehack.org/794675/good-friends
https://www.dumblittleman.com/signs-of-true-friendship/
https://thoughtcatalog.com/chloe-masterson/2012/10/23-signs-youve-got-a-toxic-friend/
How to have the kind of family you want:
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/family/there-are-6-different-family-types-and-each-one-has-a-unique-family-dynamic/
https://psychcentral.com/blog/what-makes-a-family-functional-vs-dysfunctional/
https://ideapod.com/toxic-family-11-signs-of-family-dysfunction-and-what-to-do-next/
https://family.lovetoknow.com/list-family-values
https://socalmentalwellness.com/family-therapy/building-positive-family-environment/
https://www.healthyfamiliesbc.ca/home/articles/building-good-family-relationships-children
How to choose the right career:
https://www.whatcareerisrightforme.com/blog/how-to-choose-a-career-that-suits-you-best/
https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/how-to-choose-a-career
Jobs to consider:
https://blog.4tests.com/50-careers-without-high-school/
https://www.moneyunder30.com/50-side-jobs-you-can-do-while-you-travel
https://www.businessinsider.com/highest-paying-jobs-in-america-2019-2
https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/jobs-always-in-high-demand
https://money.usnews.com/careers/best-jobs/rankings/the-100-best-jobs
https://www.thebalancecareers.com/10-jobs-that-are-safe-from-the-robots-4586404
https://www.onlinecoursereport.com/30-best-jobs-you-can-prepare-for-online/
https://www.ryrob.com/work-from-home-jobs/
Life balance:
https://scottjeffrey.com/wheel-of-life/
https://medium.com/@erictaussig/balancing-the-wheel-of-life-as-a-working-parent-d4b0c261b084
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/f0/8f/b7/f08fb704a007cb0022a2113dbc0582f0.jpg
You'll have to make the value decisions yourself, but it helps to have information. Getting out of a crappy situation tends to take a while, but there are lots of things you can start doing the moment you decide that you don't want things to stay the same. If you don't like it, change it. Make something happen.
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