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This article talks about the declining effects of cognitive-behavioral therapy.  I am fascinated to explore why something that used to work pretty well is now not working as well. 

I can think of some possibilities not mentioned in the article:

1) The longer a therapy is around, the wider it is known.  That means more people have access to it before  official therapy.  You can go online and find CBT theory, techniques, thought distortions and how to fix them, worksheets, and other tools.  This raises the chance that someone already knows CBT and has tried at least some of its methods before seeking professional help.  So if the therapist then does more CBT, it looks less effective measured from the start of therapy,  because the client already did some of that stuff and got whatever benefit they got from it earlier.  In this case, CBT only has a high rate of helpfulness for people who really need guidance and/or advanced techniques that don't work well alone.

2) CBT is terrific at treating certain types of problems, but mediocre or useless for others.  If you have bad tape, this is a go-to therapy for fixing that, and you should definitely try it.  Same with any other logical or practical problem.  It's also ideal for people who do better with facts, logic, numbers, or other objective things than with subjective things.  But if you are feeling unheard, your emotions are bent, unacknowledged memories are gumming up your subconscious, or your biochemistry is out of whack, then CBT is not ideal for those problems and won't help much.  It is possible that certain types of problem are more or less common in different decades.  If the problems presenting now are something other than logical/practical ones, this therapy will seem less useful overall.

Bottom line: If you have head problems that you need help with, start by identifying them as best you can.  Then look at the available options for treatment.  Each type of treatment is good at some things and bad at others.  Pick one that's a good match for your problem(s).  Try it for a while.  If it doesn't help, drop it and try something else.

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Date: 2015-07-13 08:42 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Just out of curiosity do you (or perhaps one of the site regulars)know if it's standard practice for therapists to ask what their patients are doing about whatever issue they've come in for?

Because if that information is floating about somewhere, well we'd have some of the answer on if cbt is waning in effectiveness as that article suggests.

And as an aside... grumbles... I'm not too sure if their assumption about people having no drive to change is really appropriate for a site talking about therapy. That statement, as well as the sparsity of data/facts in the whole makes me inclined to take the lot with a spoonful of salt.

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Date: 2015-07-13 01:54 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] somecrazygirl
Generally, therapists will ask that question, or a question like it. However, because of the huge mass of privacy laws around medical treatment (at least within the US), that kind of data is hard to compile. It's not something that can be coded into an insurance file like the name of a diagnosis or the length of time that someone has been in treatment. It would most likely be written in some arbitrary location in the notes for each particular patient, and making counts would require going into the files, finding the information, noting the answers, classifying the answers into groups... And whoever did the legwork would have to have access to this stuff under privacy laws or be willing to let someone who does have access take complete credit for their work. (I'm not arguing that people who don't legally have access to private patient files won't go digging into them anyway; I'm saying that scientific journals these days make at least a token effort to pretend they care about ethics and accepting a paper that is openly founded upon violating privacy laws is so obviously an ethical violation that even they wouldn't dare touch it.)

The discussion about a lack of drive for change is at least attributed to a particular (historical) individual rather than given by the authors as something they believe in. I don't think the article is endorsing that perspective, personally. That said, the article is about as good as science reporting gets these days, which is to say that it's pretty unimpressive but at least doesn't get obvious facts wrong like the actual topic of the study. It does link to the study itself, which means that if you can get through the technical terms, you can decide exactly what the study is saying yourself.

My guess is that there are a lot of factors at play. One of those is that the kinds of people who end up as part of mental health studies are often people whose treatment isn't going well. Early CBT studies would have been deployed in an environment where no one had already had CBT treatment. More recent studies would be done among patients who had already had CBT and had it fail on them--so of course it wouldn't work this time around either. (This is sort of a variant of the cultural exposure hypothesis.)

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Date: 2015-07-13 01:13 pm (UTC)
moonvoice: (wczuciki - shoebilled stork is angry)
From: [personal profile] moonvoice
This...doesn't really surprise me. CBT was always so fantastic for people who really didn't need long-term or in-depth therapy, folks seeing occupational therapists, who needed job advice, who had mild self-esteem issues. And I think initially, those were the people who did see therapists the most and didn't necessarily have the self-help vocab (that you've mentioned) and so would kind of approach ever new technique with awe as opposed to like...so many of us now researching those techniques and going 'wow that seems amazing I'm going to try that.' Which does deprive a therapist of the 'wow' response in person.

I also think back in the 80s and 90s, it was less okay for people to seek out therapists for things like PTSD, dissociative disorders, schizotypal disorders and other types of disorders. Or alternatively, I wonder if there was a higher institutionalisation rate for people with those disorders than there is now (it's harder for people to get inpatient treatment these days because the cost of outpatient therapy is cheaper - at least in Australia - than it is for inpatient therapy).

But...CBT was always useless for me. It felt like...a bandaid at best. And a crude tool at worst. As a logical person, I actually loathed it, because I couldn't see the logic in 'lying to myself to make myself better' given that self-deception was the reason I had such bad self-hatred issues in the first place (a conundrum and a paradox, and one easily solved by bypassing the cerebral cortex and getting down into deeper areas of the brain first).

I also think our media as osmotically absorbed so much of CBT into its own sort of character development arcs. There are so many shows that have characters see therapists, or talk to one another and bring up things like 'it's okay to cry / it's okay to get angry / this self-maligning that you do, it's not healthy, have you tried doing this.' People are exposed to CBT and other therapeutic techniques not just through self-research or the medical world anymore, but very much in the cinema, especially through blockbusters like Good Will Hunting (it's not necessarily accurate therapy, but its popularity does suggest that the world was ready to start 'hearing' more therapeutic techniques en masse some time ago). (My favourite unit at university was Psychology, Psychoanalysis and Cinema and I did that in the late 90s and it's still very relevant).

And also like you say, I do wonder if the tools for measuring its effectiveness needs to be titrated for a more therapy-aware society.

I guess as well, there are so many people who go into get a clin. psych degree who really should not be therapists. I've met clinical psychologists - while I was at university - who were abusive, who were manipulative, who were like 'oh I can handle those crazies but not *those* crazies.' I'm talking upwards of fifteen students in their second year, who were all really fucking unsuited to doing the degree, and were literally doing it because they a) wanted the paycheck and b) in some cases believed that they could literally fix anyone.

I don't actually really love the curriculums taught to clinical psychologists in Australia. And I've never had much success with them because the first stick they try to hit you with - usually clumsily - is the CBT stick. Followed by vague or specific guilt-tripping that 'it's not working because YOU'RE resistant.' (Bullshit).

So...

So it doesn't surprise me that the actual data says experienced psychologists yield better results than inexperienced. They're more likely to have done additional courses and education and learned more techniques. They have an idea of what works. And perhaps they're the ones that actually genuinely *can* help people, as opposed to the many who just want the paycheck and enjoy the grandeur of thinking they can fix everyone while getting rich.

If I sound cynical about clinical psychologists and therapists and CBT it's because I've seen 19 of them since 1997, and only started doing well with any of them about 6 years ago. I've been emotionally abused by two therapists - one worked in the school system and wanted me to be her surrogate daughter, the other was a clinical psychologist who started off with good boundaries and ended up talking about swingers parties (edit: with a view to using this as evidence that she could 'fix' my touch phobia by wink wink nudge nudge).

Eh so my general thoughts on the industry right now is that I am really not surprised that things don't seem to be going so great, now that the industry has exploded, and there's a lot of mediocrity going around amongst a more therapy-savvy audience who need more in depth assistance and support.
Edited Date: 2015-07-13 01:16 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2015-07-13 02:06 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] somecrazygirl
Most data indicates that the most important thing in whether a psychologist or therapist will be helpful to a person is whether the patient and therapist have a good rapport. The type of therapy chosen matters, as do a wide variety of other things, but if the patient and therapist don't work well together, the rest of it tends to fall apart. This means that people in the profession who insist on doing things their way and not working the way the patient needs are incapable on a pretty basic level. But modern society tends toward assuming that mental health works the way, say, putting together Ikea furniture works: follow the instructions and you'll be fine. And there's a lot of mystery around visiting mental health professionals that isn't there around regular doctors. Not only are there a bunch of people in the industry who have no business being there, but also people don't understand the importance of their decision and don't know what they should be looking for.

It's really frustrating.

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Date: 2015-07-13 02:17 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] moonvoice
This means that people in the profession who insist on doing things their way and not working the way the patient needs are incapable on a pretty basic level.

Oh yeah, I'm in complete agreement about the importance of the rapport between patient and therapist. Unfortunately, for most of my 'needing therapy' life, I've been locked into Australian welfare schemes where I was often limited to one or two therapists who were underpaid and not very excited about doing their jobs. I couldn't 'shop around.' (I tend to find that posts on Tumblr for example that suggest doing this, are very unaware of financial privilege and how that impacts a person's ability to do this in certain countries - especially Australia, where copays and so on aren't really a thing). When I quit out of seeing clin. psychs (best decision I ever made - not that I recommend others do what I did there lol) and started looking at psychotherapists who placed particular emphasis on therapeutic rapport, expressive therapies, sand therapy, DBT, parts therapy and a few other things, things got better. I mean, I am in a situation where I can only afford to see a therapist a max of once a month because insurance for mental health in Australia doesn't work like it does in the USA, but at least I can see a good one. And I now maintain that seeing a great therapist once a month is WAY better than seeing a terrible one under a government welfare scheme more often - but not everyone even has the privilege of doing that, and that's the thing - some of those people need access to a range of therapists the most.

I think a lot of people don't really know - as per the mystery you mentioned - that they hire a therapist for a goal, and that they're not entering into some mysterious bond where the therapist authoritatively 'fixes' them and they passively wait for that to happen. I've known people who have been in therapy for some 10+ years look at me in shock when I say 'you know you can fire your therapist if they're not helping you, right?' Who literally have *no idea* they have that kind of agency in the therapeutic relationship while they're in one. That's horrifying. It also means they're not really being supported in believing they do have agency, or that these sorts of things might be being glossed over. Which I think perpetuates that whole 'mystery of therapy' thing - even people *in* therapy, *experienced* as clients, don't know a great deal about the mechanics of termination or looking for the best therapist for them.

There's a lot of frustrating things about I think the system that's in place, the mysteries attached to it (replete with stigma and taboo), and also the myths perpetuated within the industry by some clients and therapists alike (CBT can help everyone / there are quick cures for everything / etc.) It definitely doesn't work like IKEA furniture! Heh. I like the analogy.

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Date: 2015-07-13 03:21 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] redsixwing
>>As a logical person, I actually loathed it, because I couldn't see the logic in 'lying to myself to make myself better' given that self-deception was the reason I had such bad self-hatred issues in the first place (a conundrum and a paradox, and one easily solved by bypassing the cerebral cortex and getting down into deeper areas of the brain first). <<

I can understand this. The antidote to self-deception for me was truth, truth, more truth - which hurts like blazes but gets the job done. (Is still getting the job done, after the therapeutic relationship was test-suspended and never resumed.)

>>...in some cases believed that they could literally fix anyone. <<

This is becoming a red flag for me: if someone professes this belief, I tend to get very suspicious of them.

Also, IDK because: have not studied this. When you look at therapeutic techniques in media, do they seem to be well-executed? I wonder if people get the belief that fixing a mind is like assembling Ikea furniture from a cardboard-cutout portrayal that doesn't hint at the difficulties one will encounter going in unprepared.

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Date: 2015-07-13 03:40 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] moonvoice
The antidote to self-deception for me was truth, truth, more truth

I can get behind that, but only if it resonates as being the truth. And sometimes unpacking a bad record in one's head that has something like 100 responses to a CBT technique needs more than just words. Which I'm fine with, because eventually the words help too. But thought stopping is not so useful as an initial way to broach an issue for me. It doesn't feel like truth until I know what's going on beneath.

When you look at therapeutic techniques in media, do they seem to be well-executed?

Almost never.

That doesn't mean they're without use, or that they don't have truth to them (someone who sees Good Will Hunting and experiences a kind of resonance and validity and then goes and seeks out a therapist - like, it's not well-executed therapy, but it's done a good thing), it's just that portraying therapists with ridiculously bad boundaries is somewhat the norm. There's been a decent use of a therapist with Olivia Benson towards the end of Law & Order: SVU, and otherwise... like for example, the western version of In Treatment is both a really good show, about a therapist with miserable boundaries who tries his hardest. He sees a therapist in turn (a supervisor) who has *terrible* boundaries, and it's not until the last season that you come to see (if you haven't seen it earlier) he is both a) too invested in his clients b) takes their downfalls too personally and c) that his previous supervisor (played by Diane Weiss) was like...not good for him pretty much at all. Even The United States of Tara didn't do so well on a few fronts, while doing well on others. Not enough for me to recommend it based on how they represented therapy though.

But it's a great show, lol. Gabriel Byrne is incredible. It's a well-executed show. But it doesn't shine a very good spotlight on what healthy therapy should be.

Good representations of healthy therapy in television and cinematic media are rare. You're more likely to find it in fanfiction, I think, and I've encountered some stuff which has made me think 'oh yeah, this is real.' Therapy tropes common to media are things like 'the one big cry will help fix everything,' and 'your therapist treating you as more special than their other clients will give you a better chance of recovering' (that's a dangerous thing to transmit in media - though I can tolerate that a bit more in shows like My Mad Fat Diary, which at least make an effort to show a therapist establishing boundaries with a client for their own protection).

It was one of my areas of special interest at university, how media intersected with mental health representation (specifically, trauma recovery - I also hate the way that media tends to represent flashbacks, but that's a whole other thing). I am both drawn to and excited by and disappointed in mental health representation in the fictional media. I think it's good that it's there. I think there's a lot of unhealthy stuff and some shitty tropes. I think it's getting better over time. I think the media's 'general literacy' around mental health is expanding like it is in society overall. It's a complicated area, for sure. But overall - not well-executed, and often poorly researched. And in comedy shows like Episodes (which I love), downright offensive.

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Date: 2015-07-14 12:13 pm (UTC)
moonvoice: (wczuciki - sparkling moonflowers)
From: [personal profile] moonvoice
I am curious about what you hate in media portrayals of flashbacks, what you would change.

Well, as I said in my response, fanfiction normally does a far better job than visual media - so fics like yours and other people's are doing a great job. :)

But as for television/cinema media, I am so fucking tired of jump cuts and juxtaposition where the past memories go through all post-production (desaturation, saturation, filters etc.) to make it very clear to an audience 'OH LOOK AT THIS DISTURBING MEMORY AREN'T YOU DISTURBED TOO'. (I've been informed that Mad Max does a lot of this to disorient, but it's such a damned cliche. Like, yes, it can be effective, and, yes, that's *sometimes* what visual flashbacks are like, but...eh).

It's effective (I remember the resonance I felt the first time I saw the technique back in the late 80s), but it's troped and lazy and cliched and no one tends to push past it in the visual mediums, especially in scriptwriting. It completely ignores things like sensory flashbacks: what about someone experiencing mysterious but serious gut pain for several days that happened to coincide with witnessing a show about stomach surgery, while they themselves have experienced traumatic hospital experiences? Sensory flashbacks are very common, yet hardly acknowledged. Where's a character who talks about phantom pains and goes through years of trying to explore chronic illnesses and many invasive tests only to one day learn that sensory flashbacks with no attending visual flashbacks happen? Ditto auditory and olfactory flashbacks (which are sometimes stronger and more pervasive than visual flashbacks for some people - and yet can be undiagnosed for ages, or misdiagnosed as atypical migraines).

I mean yes it makes sense that visual mediums would lean too heavily on visual flashbacks - it's what the format is for. But you meet someone who has PTSD and knows a bit about their own disorder and still don't understand olfactory/auditory/sensory flashbacks are a thing because it's just about never reflected back to them in mainstream media representations of PTSD (for me, PTSD also encompasses C-PTSD and PDSD there, as well). It's disappointing.

But then, since it's my area of personal interest, I've specifically consumed an awful lot of media based solely on representations on trauma and post-trauma and trauma recovery, so you do end up with a sense of 'same shit different day.' Sometimes it's done better, sometimes it's done worse. If I'm going to write a text including visual flashbacks, I have a rule for myself to include at least one sensory / auditory / olfactory flashback as well.

Anyway, fanfiction is definitely making strides where mainstream visual media is not.

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Date: 2015-07-14 07:55 pm (UTC)
redsixwing: A red knotwork emblem. (Default)
From: [personal profile] redsixwing
It doesn't feel like truth until I know what's going on beneath.

Fair enough! I had to use words to break through resistance so that I could /get/ to the subconscious stuff - before a good therapist and some serious internal work showed me the way, the words were basically an emergency brake - I had to stop the runaway train so I could go fix the tracks. (That thing about positive affirmations? Yeah, I still can't because they just seem hokey and and they trip the BS-o-meter even if they're factually true.)

It's based on your recommendations that I want to see United States of Tara at all, hah. Your treatment of media absolutely fascinates me.

Given that a lot of people don't read fanfiction or a lot of original fiction ([personal profile] ysabetwordsmith's examples here) and with the tremendous power of media to propagate ideas, I'd love to see more /good/ representation.

I like your point below about sensory flashbacks. (Also a serious "oh!" moment on some of those - did not, actually, realize that some of that is a possibility and it explains things. The More You Know.) Since I'm currently working on a gigantic fanfic with several characters who've been rather badly traumatized (literal world-ending events in game got sort of blown off) I'll make notes to myself to include these. Since recovery is a main theme of the fic, it'll fit right in.

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Date: 2015-07-14 08:00 pm (UTC)
redsixwing: A red knotwork emblem. (Default)
From: [personal profile] redsixwing
>>Very sensible. That also fixes gaslighting.<<

It certainly helps to spot it, and to figure out the extent of the damage before doing other things to fix it. One tool in the toolkit, really.

>>How will we know if the treatment is helping, having no effect, or actively making matters worse?<<

That's a good point! I live in a world of design/test/check/retest and tend to forget that not everyone does, and particularly in the wild and hairy world of mental injury and illness, not having this sort of a pattern in effect seems like a good way to run right off a cliff.

>>Media portrayals show a lot of the mistakes that actual therapists make. <<

..which can be useful as an anti-pattern but is a disaster when trying to assess when one needs help, and what kind, and to what extent. Gah.

Your stuff is pretty awesome. Honestly? Came for the Avengers, stayed for the good representations of mental harm and recovery.

This is incidental to this conversation, but I owe you thanks: I took training last week for my company's emergency handling plans, and am adding EFA to my study list in earnest, largely because of your writing.

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Date: 2015-07-16 10:40 pm (UTC)
redsixwing: A red knotwork emblem. (Default)
From: [personal profile] redsixwing
>>My whole frigging life is a science experiment.<<

Sympathies - that's a rough spot to be in. I'm not quite that far from the bell curve, but it's enough to make supposedly-mundane things nontrivial a pretty good chunk of the time. (If you ever want to rant about this, I'm open to it.)

>>This is my favorite handbook:<<

I've purchased a copy. :)

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2015-07-14 07:11 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] chordatesrock
Can I jump in to this thread to ask you to clarify what you mean by "untrained empaths" and "trained empaths"?

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Date: 2015-07-22 12:14 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] chordatesrock
Belated thanks for explaining. :) By the way, if you don't mind-- are you describing ideas you came up with on your own, or is this part of your faith or some existing system that I could just go google instead of bothering you when you say things I don't understand?

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Date: 2015-07-14 12:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] moonvoice
Frex, in America, the military more often deploys people on multiple tours of duty, which makes PTSD skyrocket -- really it's PDSD then, in many cases, chronic rather than acute exposure doing the damage.

True, though the rates of PTSD (and complex forms of PTSD) still remains staggeringly high amongst those experiencing abuse at home (children more than adults, and adult rape and domestic violence survivors more than the military).

Media awareness of PTSD tends to skyrocket in tandem with the military, because the media validates (as much as the government doesn't want to) military PTSD (which happens globally in lower incidents when compared to incidents of PTSD in home abuse situations) likely due to connections to the patriarchy vs. validating incidents of PTSD in the home environment. Since they are statistically more often caused by men, and that kind of patriarchy is invisibilised, invalidated, and then responsibility to deal with it is more likely to be placed upon the victim.

Shows and fics about military or military-type PTSD tend to have more traction, even though they represent a less common cause for PTSD overall. Complex PTSD is still most commonly caused by systemic long-term child abuse, and *most* of all by long-term systemic child sexual abuse. That will always trump the military in terms of statistics (unless we suddenly come a long way in actually shining a spotlight on domestic child abuse and home abuse and actually manage to reduce it to a point where military personnel do actually get the disorder more often abroad than at home). There's a lot of things to take into account when you look at the cultural visibility of PTSD, and misogyny plays into it a huge amount. Especially into what kinds of people get PTSD and how it's portrayed in an episode or film.

One has to take into account that a media culture is often more willing to validate PTSD in context of war (because a country is often dependent on validating a country going to war in the first place, so PTSD becomes a 'noble injury' or illness, which is also ridiculous when one looks at how countries tend to universally treat their mentally ill war vets - the visual media is pretty confused there, lol).

I mean, considering that to date, more people in the US military get PTSD from being raped or assaulted by their own colleagues, than by witnessing violence or by being hurt by the enemy: how many shows and movies outside of SVU can you count that actually address 'military acquired PTSD caused by troops assaulting another troop?' There's more visual pieces about child abuse related PTSD than there are about that.

So...where the media shines a spotlight is not necessarily where the biggest problems are.

Not really a cohesive reply, I know. Just kind of thinking out loud about how the changes in society that 'break more people' aren't actually always where you think they are. One only need consider the skyrocketing numbers of people getting PTSD from chemo treatment re: cancer, to realise that. After all, it's an issue hardly anyone really knows about, and some people still struggle to realise that repeated chemo treatments can caused complex forms of PTSD.

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Date: 2015-07-15 12:12 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] heartsinger
I read all the comments before commenting, so some of what I say here is gonna reflect that, but this is too stressful to try to find the specific bits. I've been trying to do that, and now it's been over a day since I first saw the post. I give up.

For me, setting observable reality against my brainweasels has been somewhat helpful, but I seem to be reaching the end of things it will fix. The trouble is, this entire setup lends itself to an internal argument, so instead of doing things, my brain will start debating the relative merits of the argument in an extremely aggressive, ad hominem manner, and it quickly devolves into telling myself how awful I am. I'm trying to stop that, and just go with "NOPE! NO ARGUING! DOING THINGS NOW!" but it's marginally effective at best. I have a really hard time doing homework, because trying sets off the argument, and it's so much easier not to think about it.

Honestly, a lot of what I get out of therapy is a neutral person who doesn't know anyone else I know and can be honest with me. A lot of the time we end up spending most of the session dealing with immediate problems, which doesn't leave time for more long-term stuff.

Even though I know I can fire my therapist, it's very hard for me to do, because I don't think there's someone better out there, or that I can judge that effectively, and intakes are more expensive than regular sessions. Most of my therapists have been mediocre, but my psych-meds people have mostly been bad. Everyone is just really invested in me being normal and healthy at bottom. Maybe it's because I am, and I think I'm supposed to feel better, but it's mostly disorienting.

It's been theorized that I'm an empath, but if it's true then I've buried it really thoroughly. Of course, I did manage to create shields so strong that they were hurting me, so that's less outside the realm of possibility than it should be, but I'd think that taking down those shields would've also unburied the empathy. But I'm very good at forgetting things.

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Date: 2015-07-12 11:19 pm (UTC)
ext_74: Baron Samadai in cat form (BrainStorm)
From: [identity profile] siliconshaman.livejournal.com
There is also this odd thing about CBT ... it only really works well on people who haven't got any idea what CBT is. [No, I don't know why, and reading around, I'm not sure anyone else does either, there's a lot of hand-waving terms like naive presupposition and cognitive bias etc].

Which adds up to the same as possibility 1, but with the cause and effect reversed.

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