Hard Things

Feb. 1st, 2023 12:15 am
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Life is full of things which are hard or tedious or otherwise unpleasant that need doing anyhow. They help make the world go 'round, they improve skills, and they boost your sense of self-respect. But doing them still kinda sucks. It's all the more difficult to do those things when nobody appreciates it. Happily, blogging allows us to share our accomplishments and pat each other on the back.

What are some of the hard things you've done recently? What are some hard things you haven't gotten to yet, but need to do? Is there anything your online friends could do to make your hard things a little easier?

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Date: 2023-02-01 08:52 am (UTC)
siliconshaman: black cat against the moon (Default)
From: [personal profile] siliconshaman

I have a bike to rebuild... My Beloved daily driver e-bike blew out it's back tire, which destroyed the wheel rim. I initially tried dismantling the wheel and replacing the rim with one from a wheel with a dead hub motor.

That idea turned out to be a non-starter. Although theoretically I could've undone all the spokes and swapped it across, it turned out in practice to be impossible. The wheel is double wall structure, and the access holes to the screws holding the spokes in are only just bigger than the screw heads. So.. unless there's some special tool I don't know of for this job, it's not doable. I struggled with it for days before giving up.

Thus.. Beloved has ordered a new wheel.. which is £175 we didn't want to spend, but unavoidable. Her back-up bike is ok for short term use, but it's not great.

So, once the new wheel gets here, I have that to rebuild. Which honestly, I'm not looking forward to. Bikes are god-awful kludges, with system parts specifically designed so you can only work on them with specialised tools that are sold at breath-takingly steep mark-ups and terrible ergonomics. I inevitably end up covered in grease and bleeding after scraping my knuckles on sharp bits of metal in the way.

One of these days, I shall sit down and redesign myself a bike from the ground up, and build it right.

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Date: 2023-02-01 11:50 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] acelightning73
I admire your spirit, building something to solve a problem. It's frustrating to find out that someone else has already solved it, but the thing they build is unaffordable to mere mortals. I'd love to see an industry based on "assemble complex useful devices out of stock parts that are inexpensive and easy to find.

Re: Try this ...

Date: 2023-02-02 02:39 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] see_also_friend
>>Well, a plastic hand that is free is much better than a $50,000 one that most people can't afford.<<

My thought on healthcare, is that fancy medical advancements are useless if they are unaffordable.

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Date: 2023-02-02 04:25 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] acelightning73
I've seen many references to 3D printing for medical purposes. I think they "printed" a framework of a friendly plastic to grow kidney cells on to create an artificial kidney for implantation. I know they can make arteries that way, and I think there's a way to encourage bone growth. (I wish I had a 3D printer to play with!)

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Date: 2023-02-02 12:41 am (UTC)
siliconshaman: black cat against the moon (Default)
From: [personal profile] siliconshaman

Well.. that and I'm broke most of the time, so anything I build has to be cheap or recycled from stuff someone's thrown out.

But yeah, it really bugs me that not only are bikes hard to maintain by design but that they make even more money by deliberately designing it so you have to buy a tool that you'll maybe use once or twice a year at most, and costs you a significant fraction of the actual bike, for something that probably cost at most a couple of quid to make!

That's just taking the piss that is!

So, I wanna build something better, and something that if it catches on, makes a dent in those money-grubbing bastards bottom line!

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2023-02-02 02:41 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] see_also_friend
Try a wooden frame. Carpentry is lower-tech and easier to mess with than metallurgy, or heaven forbid, carbon-fibre filaments.

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2023-02-02 02:48 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] see_also_friend
Oh, and sometimes you can share tools among your friends. I've got some basic bike repair stuff, and I will sometimes let people use it, or offer to do quick fixes myself. (I can do basic maintenance and a bit of jury-rigging. Fancy stuff like cables, I need to hire someone.)

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2023-02-02 03:52 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] see_also_friend
I don't have a co-op or tool library, though they are good ideas.

My experience is sharing tools between relatives, and occasionally fixing up other folk's bikes. Mostly this is for friends/relatives, fixing up junk bikes* for donations, looking at already-donated bikes due to having the best repair skills among the volunteers, or being the person who actually has tools.

*I do have standards; I try to donate them in useable condition, cleaned and tuned-up as best as I can. Good brakes, good tires etc. I even like to leave a note about what condition it is in!

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Date: 2023-02-02 04:22 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] acelightning73
They've made it like that with cars. When we had VW Jettas, we had a number of Volkswagen-specific tools. We had to get a specific Toyota thing after our last VW died and we wound up with a 2006 Corolla. And that died in the coastal flooding at Christmas, so now we've got another Jetta - it belonged to my daughter-in-law, who developed a severe eye infection last year, and can't drive any more. (And I can't drive because of the stroke.) My son removed all the wards and other protections they had put on the Jetta, so I could add my own. So... this little car is a rabbit. Beneath the notice of a person who has big important things to do. Not big enough to be a threat, but not big enough to bother to eat either. So you just don't notice me driving a little faster than the law says, or sneaking past you as I take the exit. Just a harmless little bunny of a car, in the care of a hedge-Witch.

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Date: 2023-02-02 03:26 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] see_also_friend
>>One of these days, I shall sit down and redesign myself a bike from the ground up, and build it right.<<

Go for it. And maybe do some crowdfunding on Kickstarter.

Wooden bike frames: https://www.sportivecyclist.com/a-cyclists-guide-to-bike-frame-materials-wood/
Bamboo bike frames: https://wheretheroadforks.com/bamboo-bike-frame-pros-and-cons/

Here is a cool bike ambulance. If I were designing it, I'd try to have a removeable 'stretcher' over the trailer part that can be used to lift and move the patient. Plus, it could be used as a cargo trailer.
https://www.engineeringforchange.org/solutions/product/zambulance/

Cargo bicycles provide some interesting designs, and cargo trailers can be made from a wide variety of things.
- trailer from a ladder: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/7459155608210938/
- trailer from a wheelchair
- this trailer is really cool: https://shtiggy.wordpress.com/bike-trailers/ladder-bike-trailer/?share=google-plus-1

...hmm, a bike where you can swap out a piece to switch between a two-wheeler mode and different cargo modes would be cool

One that could be powered by both hands and feet might be more efficient.

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Date: 2023-02-01 01:18 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] we_are_spc
I need to do a wholde bunch of shit (including leaving for work soon) and I still have no inclination to do it. :(

I have all this laundry laying around that's starting to get annoying, dishes to do...*sighs*

And that's just the top two things;. I'm hoping to call someone when I get home from work today to play motivational buddy, but we'll see how it goes.

-T~

Applications and recommendations IN!

Date: 2023-02-01 02:02 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] librarygeek
I officially applied for the ordination program I want with the Jewish mystics of Aleph - Jewish Renewal for rabbi and rabbinic pastor, and applied for my first unit of Clinical Pastoral Education with a hospital. I had to get three letters of recommendation for each and they've been confirmed as received. I have my first Zoom interview next week.

1) Writing the spiritual autobiography was intense.
2) Asking others for letters of recommendation was hard.

I'm on my way to being the chaplain/spiritual counselor who has already been through intensive care units several times and understands how much trauma that can really be.
Edited (Added last bit. ) Date: 2023-02-01 02:04 pm (UTC)

Re: Applications and recommendations IN!

Date: 2023-02-01 11:54 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] acelightning73
I hope you go into more detail about this in your DW. I'd like to know more about this. This is possibly something that will help Wiccans and Pagans establish our bona fides as legitimate clergy.

Re: Applications and recommendations IN!

Date: 2023-02-02 01:10 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] librarygeek
I hadn't thought about that, thank you. Ok, I'll start writing up a post!

I was amused today that a book I was checking on someone else, "Three Mystics Walk Into a Tavern", has Starhawk mentioned in the Women and the Feminine chapter, speaking on not power *over*, but power from *within* as "the power that does not depend on depriving someone else".

Re: Applications and recommendations IN!

Date: 2023-02-02 04:15 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] acelightning73
That's a big distinction Starhawk makes, the difference between power OVER (as a parent usually has some power of their child) and power TO (the power to make our own choices, the power of magic, the ABILITY TO MAKE CHANGES ACCORDING TO WILL.)

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Date: 2023-02-02 05:15 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] readera
My partner had a mental health breakdown last week. Good news we were able to get him a virtual therapy apt & she seems to be a good fit for him. Also after 1 session she said that he probably has ptsd. We both knew he had lots of trauma but it didn't click that he has ptsd.

I decompressed a bit and we are both doing a bit better. I would appreciate any ptsd resources esp for physically disabled people / thier partners.

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