Emotional Intimacy Question: Never Forget

[ysabetwordsmith]

Folks have mentioned an interest in questions and conversations that make them think. So I've decided to offer more of those. This is the current list.

48. Tell me about a day you had that you’ll never forget.

This one.  And by never, I mean I'll be using that memory to get through hard times in lives yet to come.  I knew that while it was happening.  One of my favorite gifts is knowing key moments as they happen.  :D

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[we_are_spc]

You know, our meeting? That's one of them. So much discussed and thrown about.

Our first OVFF with callibr8 and the following Konflict with same. (That fucking fantastic concert is still in heavy rotation...) Along with the following riding up with Cheshire Moon. So much happy times making.

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There are others-the ren fair performances with a band I am acquainted with-the meetings with different arteists I've come across-even some of the days I had with my now-asshole-ex are among them, as hard as they are to look at now.

The week my room mates came up when he turned out to be said asshole and the huge, week long Solstice feasting. It's why I currently am not as messed up as I am (Even if I wasn't the one here at the time) by it as I could have been.

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THe Wreck the System concert at said same OVFF Where Cheshire Moon performed... I could go on. :d (I've had a death in the family yesterday...so I need these memories right now. Like so much.)

-Trausio~

Thoughts

[ysabetwordsmith]

>>You know, our meeting? That's one of them. So much discussed and thrown about.<<

Aww! I'm happy to hear that. I enjoyed it too.

>>I've had a death in the family yesterday...<<

My condolences. I hope you have some family support for this.

I've written some posts on dealing with grief and a grief questionnaire, if you want more resources.

[zeeth_kyrah]

The day I climbed to an observation point in the Smoky Mountains, and saw nothing but fog (visibility was about 60 - 100 feet).

Travelling by myself to Gettysburg and back, spending two days in the Appalachians along the way - GLORIOUS! (Though I had the sad fortune to also witness a mountain that had been subject to top-removal pit mining.)

Friday's kidney stone will be remembered as a standard for pain, giving me perspective when I get bruises and cuts in other lives.

Happy days at summer camp as a child (some of them blur together, but I don't care).