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While researching conventional triage systems, I also found this empath triage system. It's aimed at everyday encounters, however, rather than disaster scenes. I have personally handled emotional first aid at a disaster scene, so let me create a basic triage routine for that:


* The first thing you do in an emergency is case the scene. The second is pick a job. If you have selected Emotional First Aid, then:

* Do a wide sweep of the whole scene looking for people who are obviously melting down. If these are present, treat emotional meltdown first. These are the people most likely to go into shock, run into traffic, or otherwise suffer bad outcomes without immediate aid. In a mass-casualty incident, you will need to judge who needs your help the worst and who you can help the most. Probably you can treat just one severe emotional casualty. These people need the most help because they are invisibly bleeding out. Some won't be able to talk, and the ones who can, usually can't think clearly. They need someone to keep them physically safe and mentally buffered until they calm down enough to make their own decisions or you can hand them off to a friend or professional. Regrettably local-America doesn't offer much emergency psychological care unless the person is trying to hurt themselves or someone else, but helplines and a few other resources do exist.

* If nobody is melting down, make another sweep looking for people who are crying, throwing up, or otherwise showing moderate signs of distress. Sometimes you can get several of these to come together a little distance from ground zero so you can talk to them all at once. Stay calm, say reassuring things, and help them regain their emotional equilibrium if possible. Refer them to outside sources if those become available. This group has fairly consistent needs, mainly someone to lean on, and you can usually get them settled enough to begin self-care, which is mostly what they need to recover.

* If there are no obvious signs of distress, move through the crowd and look for people who are quietly upset. Try to identify who witnessed the event and/or knows someone involved, as they are likely to be upset even if they don't show it. If you pass the word that you're offering EFA, the "walking wounded" can come gather around you. Should the incident be big enough to last a while and involve supplies, put up a sign saying "Emotional First Aid." In local-America you may be the only one with those skills, but occasionally a professional may show up and take over for you. Among this group of people needing help, what some of them need will be a practical task to do. Look around, there's almost always something that needs done at a disaster scene. Some people can minimize their risk of crystallizing intrusive memories if they ram in something more positive. Others need to talk or sit quietly. You'll see the most diversity in this group, and you need to talk with them to find out what each person needs.

* Keep an eye out for secondary casualties. In a bad scene, sometimes one of the citizen responders or first responders will stagger away to go throw up, cry, or lean against a tree trying to pretend they're not freaking out. It's most prone to happen if they lose a patient, especially a child, but sometimes sheer overload or something else will do it. Ask how they are and if they need help. Responders of any type are more likely to have enough coping skills to say what they need. They're also more likely to snap "I'm fine!" Well, at least you tried.

* After you have taken care of other people's emotional needs, do a self-check. How are you feeling psychologically and physically? Do you need to use the bathroom, eat, drink, or lie down? How do you plan to process your experiences? Depending on the situation, you may feel relatively okay, somewhat stressed, or freaked out. Try to estimate the amount of damage you have taken, if any, and treat it accordingly. Here's a checklist for when you feel awful that covers most of the basics.

Remember, if all you do is keep someone from getting hit by a car or developing PTSD, you probably just saved a life. Go you.


Now here's a routine for ushers, soul workers, and other people with gifts relevant to helping the dying or dead instead of the living:

* Case the scene and select a job. If you have selected soul assistance, be as discreet as possible! It is not widely practiced in most modern societies, and if people catch you doing it, they may well knock the mop out of your hands before you can finish up. Consider these steps:

* If you can help the dying, start there. (See combat triage tips for physical clues to impending death, but most people who choose this task have subtle senses for that purpose.) You can prevent the most damage in this position. Just because they are "expectant" doesn't mean it's okay to let them suffer.
** If you can get close enough to touch them, try to find a relatively undamaged hand or other body part to hold. Talk to the person and work to keep them calm. They are more likely to have trouble transitioning if they are panicking. (In this, it's exactly like childbirth, and some of the same techniques help.) If they can breathe well, you can coach them on calm breathing or pain control breathing. If they're struggling to breathe, you can try muscle relaxation or invite them to listen to your breathing. Different techniques will work depending on why they are dying. What matters most is making sure they know they're not alone, and offering them something to focus on. If they can speak, ask about their religion if any. Knowing that lets you make a specific call for assistance from the death escort(s) of that tradition, or provide passing prayers if you or the victim know them. Otherwise you'll have to rely on your own.
** If you can't get close to the dying person, which is common with emergency personnel on scene, then you can still help by making a call to whatever death escort(s) you work with. It's basically like calling an ambulance, just for a later stage in the journey. If you're on good working terms with the most common religion in that locale, ask for their assistance too. In addition to spirit work, you also have the option of notifying a nearby church or prayer circle, which is a good idea with a messy incident that's going to hit tomorrow's papers. Some congregations have established methods for handling this stuff.
** Ethics vary by tradition and individual regarding whether or not to assist in the direction of a soul's travel. However, the majority seems to consider it acceptable to help the soul in whichever direction it is striving toward, whether it is trying to kick free of a mangled body or cling as long as possible. Sometimes souls make a choice that might have fraught outcomes, but it's their choice. It is advisable to know your stance before encountering this dilemma, as some individuals are only comfortable helping in one direction and others not at all.

* If nobody is actively dying, check for the recently dead. Quite often, a sudden violent death confuses the soul, and they're prone to getting stuck instead of moving on. You can help them and everyone else by assisting them on their way.
** If a soul is obviously panicking, first try to calm them down. Discourage them from wandering away at random, attaching to the spot of demise, or trying to crawl back into their dead body.
** If you can read the "ticket" that comes with religious affiliation, you can put them directly on that "route" yourself. People with strong faith typically know what they should expect upon death, but sudden death is as disorienting as a whack over the head and anyone can be knocked off course by it. This group of souls is easiest to help because all they need is a reminder and a nudge -- they'll usually snap out of the daze and make a beeline for their beloved destination.
** If you can open a door between worlds, just doing that is often sufficent to attract newly deceased souls to go through it; if not, you can gently shoo them along. If they have a preset destination, it will automatically take them there; if not, it lets out into the collective "bus station" where they will quite probably have no idea what to do, but that's okay because there are death escorts whose job it is to gather up the lost ones and help them figure out where to go. All you really need to do is get them through the gate. Remember that opening this door tends to be exhausting and is likely the last thing you'll be able to do. Make sure you have appropriate backup before doing it.
** If you can't do either of the more advanced things above, then call whatever death escort(s) you work with and ask them to handle the situation. They have more resources than you do.

* If you're not sure whether or not someone has died on scene, follow your tradition's guidelines for that situation. Souls who bounce well may fall out of their body and go right to their chosen route, even after an unexpected departure, and those rarely leave a trace. But some traditions have stuff you're supposed to say or do to keep the area clean and safe after any major mayhem or possible death.

* Sometimes the dying or the dead may give you a message to pass along. This may or may not be possible, but do your best.

* After taking care of others, check your own spiritual and other welfare. Apply self-care as needed.

* After leaving the scene, you may wish to plan for prayer, ritual, or other spiritual activities to soothe the soul(s) of the departed and the bereaved.

Remember that many people are afraid of dying in general and dying alone most of all. If what you can do is ease that passage, you've done a good job.

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Date: 2018-08-24 11:51 am (UTC)
alexseanchai: Katsuki Yuuri wearing a blue jacket and his glasses and holding a poodle, in front of the asexual pride flag with a rainbow heart inset. (Default)
From: [personal profile] alexseanchai
*takes notes*

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Date: 2018-08-24 12:00 pm (UTC)
alexseanchai: Katsuki Yuuri wearing a blue jacket and his glasses and holding a poodle, in front of the asexual pride flag with a rainbow heart inset. (Default)
From: [personal profile] alexseanchai
tbh I'm taking notes mostly for fiction purposes? but it's entirely plausible it'll come in useful in RL

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2018-08-24 01:25 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] technoshaman
For me, it's part of the Work... not something I've had to do yet, but good to have read that and know something of what to expect, and what to do about it.

As for L-America... don't get me started. I will say this, Ysabet. This is part of why you're here. A good bard is also a teacher.. many don't do this explicitly, but let their work hold the lesson... you take the time to *point it out* so we don't miss it.

Thank you. *squish*

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Date: 2018-08-24 01:35 pm (UTC)
alexseanchai: Katsuki Yuuri wearing a blue jacket and his glasses and holding a poodle, in front of the asexual pride flag with a rainbow heart inset. (Default)
From: [personal profile] alexseanchai
ysabetwordsmith: +1 technoshaman

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Date: 2018-08-24 05:58 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] redsixwing
Extremely useful, thank you.

I'm not a responder, but I work in a field with a higher-than-average psychological impact (information security, will Do It To You much the same way as some of the more obvious risk factors.) Most recently, I shook someone's sense of safety by accident in a casual chat about an interesting thing I found. *sigh* You live in this stuff all day, and it's easy to forget that not everybody /does/ and that in a half-decent world, not everybody would even think about it.

This stuff? The things you post about EFA have gotten me to the point where I'm doing way better about handling other people's distress, and sometimes helping with my own.

Hm. I've been to two talks now about the state of mental health in infosec (both of which were the same guy, both of which were focused hard on telling the horror stories rather than what we can do about it). At the risk of pigeonholing myself into nontechnical topics, I think that's one of those niches that's being poorly served right now...
Edited Date: 2018-08-24 05:59 pm (UTC)

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2018-08-24 09:08 pm (UTC)
technoshaman: (technopagan)
From: [personal profile] technoshaman
Ironically, the most effective method I've found isn't protesting or direct action; it's storytelling.

no, this isn't irony. This has been this way since time immemorial. You can lecture someone about the goodness of an idea, but if it's not one they've already bought into, it will bounce off their shields... but science has shown that a story or a song will slide behind those shields and hit your intended target, the same as if you'd hit Smaug's missing scale.

This is why the role of Bard has existed for as long as we remember... and why they're so important.

Hell. How did Joshua ben Joseph get his most important points across?

STORYTELLING.

Hillel? STORIES.

Siddhartha? STOOOOORY.

So.... it does work out okay? Obviously if you have that farmemory we didn't utterly kill ourselves off.... this is good.

You may forget but
let me tell you this:
someone in some future time will think of us.
-- Sappho


Wise lady. But you knew that alreddie...

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2018-08-24 09:28 pm (UTC)
redsixwing: A red knotwork emblem. (Default)
From: [personal profile] redsixwing
Ohhh gosh that is a lot of material thank youuuuuu <3

I have a notes file I'm building on this, and I'm going to need to come back to this one when I can hook the notes file to a real keyboard, but.

>>Get some people at work trained in psychological first aid.<<

This, I think, is step #1. I have enough of a platform that I can do a pilot, and if it works, publish results where the wider community can get at them. But step 0 is compiling training, so that's what I'm looking at now.

>>feeling helpless<<

I have this one on my list already. \o/ Doing something right, anyway.

...this is rapidly becoming A Project. Eep.

>>like being able to turn off your location if your relatives are harassing you<<

Oh man, I could get /going/ about Google's abuses of data. >:(

>>So whenever someone wails, "What can I do?" hand them the appropriate list and make sure they've done everything on it.<<

OH OH OH. Checklists. I can DO checklists. :D

>>Have resources for preventing PTSD in an emergency.<<

I feel like we're halfway there on a number of important points, not just at my company but my industry. And it's a really good point about Tetris and other brain-toy games. I play Zen Koi for soothing - you're not stack-sorting quite the same way, but it's a pleasing, hypnotic, zero-pressure sort of game.

>>Make sure your company does not have mandated debriefing sessions, which are implicated in making PTSD worse.<<

Um. :( We have audits to meet.

That doesn't mean any /given/ person has to be in the room, but it does mean that, frex, if it was Bobby who caught the malicious traffic surge, it's Bobby who makes sure the report is correct. They don't have to /write/ it, but the expectation is that they will. That's something we can maybe work on, or at least provide aftercare options when it's unavoidable.

>>But double-check local outcomes because some geeks are nature-averse or indifferent and might do better with scenes of floating cities or happy robots.<<

If it's on a screen, no reason we can't have options. Pick happy robots, fish, happy robots WATCHING fish. In a forest. (Uh, I'd stare at that. Oops. XD)

Speaking of soothing geek toys: someone made a bunch of beautiful animated environments. Beware, some of the non-clear weather statuses have sound effects.

>>Just treat it like any other problem that needs the engineering problem-solving loop routine, it'll work.<<

That's the nice thing about having a self-correcting process. ;)

>>Someone should have the responsibility of scanning the cutting edge of the above listed topics for new developments.<<

Yeah. Right now that's me, acting out of annoyance at the state of my industry. I wonder if there's a group already working on this stuff..? If there is, bet I can find them.

>>They are slow as a party server at peak demand<<

I snickered, I admit. :D

>>I know how to skip ahead and make obvious changes to things that aren't obvious to most people, so if you need help on this topic, I can be a sounding board or can be hired to write nonfiction.<<

Oooooh. I will take you up on that.. um, when I get this thing out of concept and research and moving toward implementation? I'm sorry to say I don't know when that's going to be.

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2018-08-28 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
“XF-53,” he said, “will your programming permit me to tell you a story?”

The droid’s photoreceptor winked off and on. Finally, it said, “There is no prohibition against that. A story cannot do damage.”

Anakin’s scarred face stretched in a wide, painful grin. “Is that what he thinks?” he murmured. “Good.”<\i>

- https://archiveofourown.org/works/7173134

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2018-08-28 04:40 pm (UTC)
technoshaman: Tux (Default)
From: [personal profile] technoshaman
oooOOooooooh. *bookmarks*

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Date: 2018-08-28 04:41 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] fyreharper
Drat, and it logged me out, so I can’t go back and fix the html >_

Re: Thoughts

Date: 2018-08-28 04:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] fyreharper
This is the second story in the series; I recommend starting with the first one. They are great <3

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