One of the key factors is that Graham decided to approach Shiv informally, just interested in making sure that he was being treated well in prison. But Shiv reminded Graham a LOT of their family stories, and the cluster of friends they've accumulated over decades, the ones who can take the Finn attitude in stride.
The other factor is that Simon and Tolli are hoping that Shiv will want to make their connection more formal and recognized, so they're willing to take things at Shiv's pace. (Chyou REALLY strained that patience, though.)
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Re: Shiv
Date: 2018-11-22 05:34 am (UTC)One of the key factors is that Graham decided to approach Shiv informally, just interested in making sure that he was being treated well in prison. But Shiv reminded Graham a LOT of their family stories, and the cluster of friends they've accumulated over decades, the ones who can take the Finn attitude in stride.
The other factor is that Simon and Tolli are hoping that Shiv will want to make their connection more formal and recognized, so they're willing to take things at Shiv's pace. (Chyou REALLY strained that patience, though.)