You'll have to weigh doing the other options against how much time/energy/money they expend. Ysabet is right, closing time helps... experiment? If she pipes up and wants to go back to your place, then you gotta cut her off.
She's a grownup, you're a grownup, she needs to put her big girl panties on and find a life of her own. Or not, but it's not your place to *take damage* and enable her.
Moving to DW is a good and happy thing. And perhaps filter one's friends list while you're at it?
I also make heavy use of filters over here. I can vent and not offend folks. I can go ooh shiny over high woo-woo and not weird people out who don't wanna be.
And yeah. Ysabet hosts good community. Talks good story, too. She's one of a small handful of people to whom I owe my sanity... for which I am most grateful.
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dancing_serpent
Re: When all the options are frustratingly poor ones, making the best choice you can is a win
Date: 2018-06-02 05:12 am (UTC)She's a grownup, you're a grownup, she needs to put her big girl panties on and find a life of her own. Or not, but it's not your place to *take damage* and enable her.
Moving to DW is a good and happy thing. And perhaps filter one's friends list while you're at it?
I also make heavy use of filters over here. I can vent and not offend folks. I can go ooh shiny over high woo-woo and not weird people out who don't wanna be.
And yeah. Ysabet hosts good community. Talks good story, too. She's one of a small handful of people to whom I owe my sanity... for which I am most grateful.