>> We've always gotten backlash for trying to share plural resources just because of myths about multiplicity. <<

Bummer. Yeah, the stigma is very bad and very dangerous.

>> We are making a list for our friends and are very appreciative of this article.<<

I'm happy I could help! Mine is just a little list for writing purposes, though. I recommend an expert: lb_lee has a list of plural references, Healthy Multiplicity, and the pluralstories guide to stories about plural characters.