Four-fold breathing. Smelling incense. Getting lost in a good book or story on the internet. Drinking a beer (but not more than one - there's a fine line for me between relaxed and shit-faced as I am a very cheap drunk). I'm also a long-time fidgeter (specifically foot jiggling) and this used to drive my grandmother nuts. Actually I'm jiggling my feet right now as I type. I think the only time I don't jiggle them is when I'm standing on them, walking on them or dead asleep.