>> the must have items for a classic wardrobe list isn't for me, I don't wear white or short dresses.<<

No one style works for everyone -- and notice that Wednesday's striking personal style actually combines motifs from several famous styles.

I rarely wear dresses or skirts of any kind, pretty much only for a fancy occasion or something like a Renaissance faire, and short ones only for erotic purposes.

>> I fully agree with not owing anyone your body. I remember being a little kid and my parents making me kiss my grandmother on the lips and not caring one bit that it bothered me.<<

Well, that's disturbing. :/