>>* Often people have ulterior motives, so they make bad instructions on purpose. For instance, the "friendship instructions" given to disabled students are the steps for ass-kissing, not for friendship, but it is called friendship. This is confusing and upsetting to the victims.<<

This provides a Fridge Horror explanation for why people who are a bit too different* to fit with the 'normal people' seem to like me so much: I actually pay attention to their feelings and needs and then respond to those needs/feelings. :/
*Not exclusively people with disabilities.