>>If that's a common insecurity, then Hands and Sirens would be natural allies.<<

I am reminded of how sincerely conservative religious* guys are sometimes nice to be around...because it is ungodly to stare at / creep on women!
*the kind who avert their eyes from unclothed elbows or whatever, not the ones who are yelling about "Put on more clothes, woman!"

>>Also true.<<

We need more stories where courtship involves making a good impression on the love interest's social circle without being creepy pr paternalistic.