>> It's the same vibe as not understanding why people ask questions they would like us to lie about the answers to (if you ask how I'm doing, I'll tell you. <<

So much this. I may deflect if I don't want people to know something, but usually if they ask, I'll answer. Many of my answers displease people. If they whine about it, I just say, "Don't ask questions that you don't want to know the answers to."

I am even more resentful of people who lie about things and then bitch because I took it at face value. No, I won't translate your stupid social lies. You can tell the truth or get the fuck away from me.