Yep. Identities *do* change. I remember vividly the day I realised I hadda turn in my straight card... I literally got hit right in the ten-ring with it. _at speed._ I have _no idea_ how they did that, nor how I didn't end up on my tuchus... and then that Event jarred something else loose, and... well... see the icon.

And, YES, it's what's right for _you_, and whoever (singular or plural) you choose to share with.