No, it's just that I am very much resonating with Pips' position on this..... it's going to happen probably in a similar way for me, or not at all. I'm not LOOKING right now, and I'm not sure I'm ready to be FOUND yet, if it were to happen soon. But some wise elders in my life laugh and say it will happen, and probably sooner than later, and then laugh harder as they chuckle that it will happen before I am fully ready and also that I should really stop tempting One with a sense of humor to Literally Drop My Someone In My Literal Lap...because it just might happen that way....