In my observation, sexuality is much more malleable than most people realize. After all, a majority of folks start out aromantic asexual, then want some flavor of sex/romance for some decades, and as elders a lot of folks lose interest in sex although romance fades less often. Sometimes people think their orientation is one thing, then fall in love with someone unexpected.

I also think life would be a lot saner if we talked about this more, and how to handle it when your body or heart surprise you. Preferably not by beating the shit out of the person you didn't expect to find attractive.