Have you ever tried hug-passing? Usually it's done where Person A is talking to Person B on the phone, and Person B says "Give my love to C," and then A goes to hug C for B. In your case, Fallon could front and hug me for Jay, then switch, and I'd hug Jay for Fallon -- trying to mimic the personal style as much as possible. That bit takes some practice, but is a skill people can learn. You can try it with any of your support crew who are willing.
huh, uh. I mean we done it one way, but not the other way 'roun'. "Hug A for me, would ya?" been about as far as we got.
Healthy touch is good, but if you've seen mostly the unhealthy kind, this is a difficult discovery to make. Well, you saw how Shiv flipped out with Pain's Gray. Recreational pain, no problem; aftercare, *panic*.
Yeah...an' this empendin' mopve got mah brain all fucked. I mean, it been moved out some, but last time I moved...bad. :(
Jus now figuring I can get touch without beoin' ridiculed for it. Lotta the family befoe I met Fallons felt boys don't need much touch as girls, so they didn't give it-'long with thinkin' boys ain't one for cryin'.
Mah crew done broke some of dat, but I still have a hard time wid...a lot of it. *nervous about dat*
Re: Does virtual touch make you feel better?
A goes to hug C for B. In your case, Fallon could front and hug me for Jay, then switch, and I'd hug Jay for Fallon -- trying to mimic the personal style
as much as possible. That bit takes some practice, but is a skill people can learn. You can try it with any of your support crew who are willing.
huh, uh. I mean we done it one way, but not the other way 'roun'. "Hug A for me, would ya?" been about as far as we got.
Healthy touch is good, but if you've seen mostly the unhealthy kind, this is a difficult discovery to make. Well, you saw how Shiv flipped out with Pain's
Gray. Recreational pain, no problem; aftercare, *panic*.
Yeah...an' this empendin' mopve got mah brain all fucked. I mean, it been moved out some, but last time I moved...bad. :(
Jus now figuring I can get touch without beoin' ridiculed for it. Lotta the family befoe I met Fallons felt boys don't need much touch as girls, so they didn't give it-'long with thinkin' boys ain't one for cryin'.
Mah crew done broke some of dat, but I still have a hard time wid...a lot of it. *nervous about dat*