Boomerang bigot is a useful phrase for me, thank you. I was aware of that type of reaction with stifled homosexuals and self hating Jews, but I didn't have an overall term for it.

I just had a friend explain to me how that happens with fat people, so I sent along the link to the new poem, Saying No to Powerlessness, when it was sponsored.

Fortunately, it was even someone who understood I was confused, and didn't think I was being mean.